Do you know why your parents told you never to talk to strangers?
Because they didn’t want you getting laid. But now that you’re a consenting adult, you must expand your Sociosexual Network by talking to and asking out as many strangers as possible. I want you to plan an NSA Dinner Party and invite absolutely everyone you find attractive or interesting. Inviting a PEEP to a dinner party where there will be other people in attendance takes the pressure off of you and the person you’re asking out, because it’s a party, not a “date.” Learn how to throw The Perfect NSA Dinner Party HERE.
I also recommend that you accept invitations and got dates from everyone who asks you out, whether you find them sexually attractive or not, because doing puts you into contact with other sexually relevant PEEPs.
You may not be attracted to Pat, the depressed tax accountant, but by saying “yes” and going to a party at Pat’s house, you end up meeting Pat’s friend, Alex, who is a hot, happy painter. Because you said “yes” to depressed tax accountant Pat’s invitation, you end up having amazing oral sex on Pat’s bed, with Alex, the hot, happy painter. Inviting Kris, your mediocre neighbor to join you for a drink at the new wine bar on your street puts you into contact with Izzi, the sexually dominant sommelier who asks for your phone number.
Therefore, the fastest way to meet more PEEPs and expand your SocioSexual Network is by talking to everyone, asking out everyone, and accepting every invitation that fits into your schedule. Send me photos of your NSA Dinner Parties to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com. And if you’re having one in New York City, Napoli, London, Los Angeles, Missoula, or Prague, you’d better invite me. I have a new gown I want to wear.