Do not waste the best years of your life being orgasmically deprived and sexually unfulfilled because of what your friends, your family, your church or your government thinks is “right”. Never be afraid to examine your values and explore your sexuality until you find what makes YOU happy, in and out of bed.
If you want to try crazy things with complete strangers, then DO IT. If you want to try being gay, bi-sexual, transsexual, pansexual, polyamorous, queer or kinky, then DO IT. If you want to try bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, or masochism, then DO IT. If you want to try monogamy (as long as it’s consensual), then DO IT. If you want to stay a virgin until you are married, then DO IT. If you want to leave your sexually unfulfilling marriage, then DO IT.
You only get ONE BODY and you only get ONE LIFE. It belongs to you and nobody else. So, take a moment and ask yourself: “What kind of sociosexual life do I want?”
It’s now or never. Tomorrow your genitals could turn to dust. Take time to figure out exactly what you want and need, in and out of bed. Communicate your needs and wants without fear of judgement or rejection. If someone isn’t willing to give you what you want and need, wish them well, and move on.
There are a lot of beautiful people in this world. A lot of beautiful people who want to give you love and sex and Mind Blowing Orgasms. As long as you fearlessly explore and articulate your needs and desires, while respecting your partners and following The 9 Habits of Highly Fuckable People, you WILL become The One everyone wants, and you will Never Sleep Alone.
Unless you want to.
And know that I am always here for you. I will help you if you need help. Whether you live in a progressive city, an ass-backwards town, a tiny village, or a remote island — If you write to me, I will connect you with the resources you need to help you live the life you always wanted.