If you want to Never Sleep Alone, you must create something every day.
All human beings have an inherent internal need to create. Most people are too lazy or too scared to bring their creative ideas to fruition. And it is the denial and suppression of the personal creative urge that makes people become unhealthily obsessed with other human beings. You are an artist. You have many creative ideas in your head, from trying a new recipe, to writing a novel, to painting your bathroom wall. Your past obsessions with other human beings were simply your inherent creative need having no other outlet. Therefore in order to become confident, fulfilled, and supremely attractive to everyone you meet, you must begin to actively work on these ideas and make daily creation your top priority.
You must paint the wall, take the acting class, learn the guitar, cook the homemade pasta, write the epic poem, make the pornographic sock puppets– Whatever creative idea you have in your head. You must make it your first priority to dedicate as much time as possible every day in bringing that creative idea to life. Even if you can only devote ten minutes a day to working on your creations, it is essential that you make the time to do it. Constant creation will cause you to never become unhealthily obsessed with anyone or anything but yourself and the world you are constantly creating.
Unless you want to.