If you slept with someone and it was “absolutely amazing!” but they are no longer calling or texting you, it is usually because of one of three reasons:
Reason #1: You Are Desperate and You Hate Your Life
And they can feel it. They can feel that you hate your job, you hate your home and you hate your body. They can feel that you have no clue what you want to do with your life, and that being with them is your only source of true happiness.
And they think that is gross.
Before they slept with you, they were blinded by lust, and therefore only saw your good qualities. After all, you ARE attractive, intelligent, well-travelled and a wicked composer of witty sexts. So, even though you complained about your job, your finances and how you don’t exercise enough, they still thought you were attractive and interesting enough to sleep with.
But, once the Fog of Fuck lifted, they realized you are NOT the kind of person they want to be in a relationship with. They don’t want to be with someone who is trapped in the mire of mediocrity. They want to be with someone who is living a satisfying and beautiful life, and inspires them to be better.
If you want people to want you, you MUST love your life. You must have new experiences daily and constantly be working on something creative that is very important to you. You must dress and carry yourself in a way that sets you apart from the mediocre majority. You must live in a clean and sensual environment that inspires you and seduces others into wanting to become a part of your world. And you must never complain about your life. If you have reasons to complain about your life you must CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
Reason #2: They Already Have A Significant Other
And they were just using you for sex. It happens. Get over it and move on. There’s nothing you can say or do to “get even.” Move on. Meet others. Have MBOs.
Reason #3: You Are Terrible In Bed
This tends to be an issue with men more than women. She thought you were awesome out of bed. You’re good looking, you’re financially stable, you’re a gentleman, and you’re a genius. But, in bed you were a sexually selfish and clueless beta-male who fucked her badly and didn’t give her an MBO.
And she is pissed.
Having a Mind Blowing Orgasm is a difficult thing for a woman. She has had countless hookups with clueless douchebags in uninspiring environments, where they fucked her like a teenage jackrabbit, came in less than 10 minutes and left her feeling cheated, defeated and orgasmically deprived.
When you sleep with a woman, you must make her believe that YOU are different by dressing well and having a clean apartment, with candles lit and music playing. You must make her feel comfortable and aroused by constantly telling her how beautiful and amazing you think she is, how good she feels on your hands, how delicious she tastes, how much you love kissing her, etc.
Tell her, “I’m going to give you the most incredible orgasm of your life tonight.” Just hearing that from you will get her more than half-way there. Then, you must touch her in a slow, sensual and masterful way, taking your time and being firm yet gentle, until she BEGS you to go harder and faster. And when she begs, you must deliver.
Make it a rule that you will not allow yourself to have an orgasm until you are 100 percent certain that you have given her AT LEAST one MBO. Do your research and learn what women want in bed. Communicate with your partner and ask her if you’re doing it the way she likes it. Tell her she’s beautiful. Tell her she’s magnificent. Tell her you’ll do whatever it takes to please her over and over and over again.
Treat her like a perfect little princess.
And she will want to be your perfect little whore.