The easiest way to seduce people is by making them want to become a part of your world. Instead of Tindering your life away, have an elegant and exciting NSA Dinner Party this weekend. Make it your goal to invite every attractive and interesting person you meet. Say, “Getting interesting people together to share an amazing meal is my favorite thing to do in life. You’re very interesting, so I hope you can attend my next dinner party on ____.” Do as I say, and I promise everyone will want to be a part of your world and give you MBOs over and over and over again.
5 GUIDELINES FOR GIVING THE PERFECT NSA DINNER PARTY
1. Make Sure Your Environment Is Cinematic and Seductive
The second someone enters your space, they should feel like they are entering the cinematic and sensual world of an Exceptional Individual. Regardless of your income or the size of your home, you can create a seductive environment that arouses the curiosity and desire of everyone you meet. You can also have an NSA DP at a local bar and transform part of the space into your own magical world, like I am doing in the red dress photo. You’d be surprised by how open bar owners are to this awesome idea!
2. Dress Beautifully and Don’t Invite Your Damn Friends
You spend enough time with those sexually irrelevant cock blockers. If your friends are around, you will very self-conscious experimenting with different personas and sociosexual roles. Try to invite only NEW people, or people you’ve had one date with and want to get to know better. Don’t invite your damn co-workers either, unless they are new to your organization and/or you find them sexually attractive. If you want to Never Sleep Alone, you must expand your Sociosexual Network. Go out and meet NEW people and invite them to your dinner party. When inviting people say, “I’m having a dinner party on _____. You’re a very interesting person, so I hope you can join the group.”
Make sure you wear an outfit that arouses the curiosity and desire of your PEEPs. Because you are in your own home, you can wear things you wouldn’t normally wear in public, like a red gown or vintage tuxedo. Costume yourself like the king or queen of your castle and encourage your guests to have fun dressing up. You can even have a theme such as The Roaring Twenties, Game of Thrones, or Venetian Masquerade!
3. Keep It Between 4-12 PEEPs
Always have between 4 and 12 people total (including yourself) at your dinner parties. Less than 4 is no good, and more than 10 makes it hard to manage. You must be able to relax and have interesting conversations with your guests, so keep it intimate, and keep it simple. Always try to invite an equal number of interesting and sexy males and females and make sure people sit male-female-male-female. Try not to invite more than one couple (if you must invite a damn couple). Keep your DP interesting by inviting people of various ages, cultures and socio-economic backgrounds. Oftentimes, I tell the people I’m inviting that they can bring one interesting guest.
4. Plan Well
Make sure you know what food and drink you will be serving. Unless you have a problem with alcohol, I highly suggest providing some wine and/or spirits, and also telling everyone to bring a bottle of their favorite. If you’re cooking, make sure to test your recipes on yourself beforehand. Cooking is not absolutely necessary. If you’re too busy or have no clue what you’re doing in the kitchen, then just order take-out and present it on beautiful dishes or in some other interesting way.
One time I had a champagne and lobster DP.
I covered the table with vintage newspapers, bought some freshly steamed lobsters (also made a cheese plate and a vegetable dish for vegetarians/vegans/pains in the asses) and I told everyone to bring a bottle of bubbly. It was an amazing and romantic night, and it took less than an hour to prepare.
5. Have Music, Candles and Dim Lighting
Make sure you have tons of candles, turn off gross overhead lights and have at least 4 hours of sexy music ready to go. Or, even better, have live music. Young and fun musicians are easy to find and damn cheap because they’re usually broke and hungry. Many musicians will play your party for free just because they love music and need to practice. You can find musicians at local colleges or Craig’s List. Having live music at your party is an Exceptional move. Make sure you also have an ipod or CDs with beautiful music on hand for when the musicians take meal and/or MBO breaks.
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