Remember, the whole point of sex is that it is supposed to feel amazing for all parties involved. The only way that is going to happen is with open communication. Therefore, during a sexual encounter, you must never be afraid to ORGASM.
Always tell your sexual partner what pleases you and be very clear about what you are prepared to offer in return for that pleasure. Usually, reciprocal pleasure is enough. But, money can make an incredible sexual experience even hotter. I’m not suggesting that you pay for sex, but you should consider using money (real or fake) as an enhancement to the sexual experience. You can play games such as “Filthy Cocktail Waitress” or “Peggy Guggenheim’s Favorite Artist”.
Remember that YOUR pleasure is just as important as your PEEP’s Pleasure. Always offer constructive criticism in a sexy and positive way. If a PEEP is not doing it the way you like it and you want them to change their technique, don’t say, “Ow! You’re doing it wrong!”
Begin every constructive criticism with a kind compliment. Kiss them and say, “You’re sooo amazing… Now can we try it a little slower (or faster, or harder or softer) Yessss. You are so good. Keep doing exactly that.”
And if they are doing it exactly the way you like it, be sure to tell them often. And always be very personal in your praise. Never say: “THAT is so good.” Or “THAT is so perfect.” Always say: “YOU are so good.” Or “YOU are so perfect.”
Remember that people want to be treated like children. But not ugly, stupid, unwanted children. People want to be treated like pretty, gifted and spoiled children. That’s why grown women are obsessed with cupcakes and grown men are obsessed with breasts.
So, remember to always make your Sexual Partner feel like they are doing a GOOD JOB! and they will keep coming back for more.
“Give a man a fuck and he’ll come once…
Teach a man to fuck, and HE’LL KNOW HOW TO FUCK.”