How To Be Amazing In Bed-Lesson 2

4yO470b8GaDl0MX1JJfE2hI9I2oGpSlmcalypgpit1E Hello, fuckables! I am back in New York City gearing up for my next live show at Joe’s Pub, NYC on November 1st. If you’re coming, I suggest reserving tickets immediately by clicking HERE. Keep in mind, if you select a SINGLES seat, you will most likely make out with a stranger. More timid audience members and those in monogamous relationships should select VOYEURS seats. Everyone mingles throughout the show and there’s a fine after-party at a nearby club so you can practice what I preach on unsuspecting sexy strangers. If you haven’t gotten my book yet, pre-order HERE to receive the online discount. And now for today’s lesson on HOW TO BE AMAZING IN BED Continue reading

How To Be Amazing In Bed- Lesson 1

IMG_6492Good morning from Marechiaro, Italy, my beautiful and fuckable angels! I am so sorry I’ve been away so long. I’ve been busy attending NSA DPs and conducting research with various PEEPs for my second book– Working title: “The Art of The MBO”– If you haven’t gotten my first book NEVER SLEEP ALONE yet, pre-order it today by clicking HERE.

MBO = Mind Blowing Orgasm Continue reading

Planning The Perfect NSA DP

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Getting the things I need from my favorite DP supplier in Montesanto.

If you want to Never Sleep Alone, you must have an elegant and exciting  NSA DP at least every two weeks. You must make PEEPs want to become a part of your world. Your home is the most important part of that world. Whether you live in a grand villa, a tiny apartment, or your brother’s car, you must be turned on and inspired by your own environment. The second someone enters your space, they should feel like they are entering the magical and sensual world of an Exceptional Individual.

NSA DP= NSA Dinner Party

Usually, I take the stairs, but my little elevator in Napoli is perfect for DPs.

Usually, I take the stairs, but my little elevator in Napoli is perfect for DPs.

Regardless of your income or the size of your home, you can create a cinematic and seductive environment that arouses the curiosity and desire of everyone who enters your door. If you pre-order my book today at any of the online retailers available by clicking HERE, I will send you an advance chapter that tells you exactly how to do that. Just email the receipt to: DoctorAlex@neversleepalone.com and I will send you back the pages that will change your life for the better.

NSA Truth

Curiosity and Desire are the foundations of sexual attraction and romantic obsession. 

Because you are the most comfortable and seductive when you are in your own space, the best way to seduce people is by inviting them to a dinner party at your home, so they can see you at your best.

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Dinner Parties are a great way to show your best self and seduce PEEPS into wanting to know you better.  Most people SUCK at throwing dinner parties.  Yours are going to be amazing. Just do what I say, and I promise everyone will want to be a part of your world and give you MBOs over and over and over again.

5 GUIDELINES FOR GIVING THE PERFECT NSA DINNER PARTY

1. Make Sure Your Environment Is Cinematic and Seductive

Pre-order my book HERE, email me the receipt to DoctorAlex@neversleepalone.com and I will send you back detailed instructions on how to do this. You must actually do it. And do all of it.

If people don’t want to be with you, there are reasons.

We must eliminate these reasons from your life.

Practice new recipes on yourself first. I throw NSADPs for myself often. Even when alone, I have an MBO as part of the dessert course.

Practice new recipes on yourself first. I throw NSADPs for myself often. Even when alone, I always have an MBO as part of the dessert course.

2. Don’t Invite Your Damn Friends

You spend enough time with those sexually irrlevant cockblockers. If your friends are around, you will very self-concious experimenting with different personas and sociosexual roles. But, IF you have a friend that you sleep with regularly and neither of you are unhealthily obsessed with the other, you may invite him or her. Sexual energy is palpable and desire is contagious. Otherwise, try to invite only NEW people, or people you’ve had one or two dates with and want to get to know better.

I always invite this angel to my DPs. He gives great wine suggestions and amazing MBOs

I always invite this angel to my DPs. He gives great wine suggestions and amazing MBOs

Don’t invite your damn co-workers either, unless they are new to your organization and/or you find them sexually attractive. If you want to Never Sleep Alone, you must expand your Sociosexual Network. Go out and meet NEW people and invite them to your dinner party. When inviting people say, “I’m having a dinner party on _____. Getting interesting people together over an amazing meal is one of my favorite things in life. You’re very interesting, so I hope you can join the group.”

Get their email and/or phone number, send them the detailed invite the next day, and tell them you need them to RSVP two days before the DP so you know how much food to prepare.

The Spanish ambassador to Italy. We had a great first date, so I invited him for a DP

The Spanish ambassador to Italy. We had a great first date, so I invited him for a DP

3. Keep It Between 4-10 PEEPs

Always have between 4 and 10 people total (including yourself) at your dinner parties. Less than 4 is no good, and more than 10 makes it hard to manage. You must be able to relax and have interesting conversations with your guests, so keep it intimate, and keep it simple. Always try to invite an equal number of interesting and sexy males and females (even if you’re gay) and make sure people sit male-female-male-female.

Feda is beautiful and interesting and we have shared many MBOs, so I invite her often

Feda is beautiful and interesting and we have shared many MBOs, so I invite her to my DPs often

Try not to invite more than one couple (if you must invite a damn couple) and if you do invite a couple, make sure they are sexy and fun and don’t let them sit next to each other. Keep your DP interesting by inviting people of various ages, cultures and socio-economic backgrounds. Oftentimes, I tell the people I’m inviting that they can bring one interesting guest.

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They’re from Prague! I found out yesterday a huge Czech publishing company made an offer to publish NSA in the Czech Republic!

4. Plan Well

Make sure you know what food and drink you will be serving. Unless you have a problem with alcohol, I highly suggest providing some wine and/or spirits, and also telling everyone to bring a bottle of their favorite truth serum. If you’re cooking, make sure to test your recipes on yourself and/or an existing lover beforehand. Cooking is not absolutely necessary. If you’re too busy or have no clue what you’re doing in the kitchen, then just order take-out and present it on beautiful dishes or in some other interesting way.

Sometimes I'm too busy to cook.

Sometimes I’m too busy to cook.

One time I had a champagne and lobster DP.

I covered the table with vintage newspapers, bought some freshly steamed lobsters (also made a cheese plate and a vegetable dish for vegetarians/vegans/pains in the asses) and I told everyone to bring a bottle of bubbly. It was an amazing and inexpensive night, and it took less than an hour to prepare.

5. Have Music, Candles and Dim Lighting 

Make sure you have tons of candles, that you turn off gross overhead lights and leave a few dim lamps on and that you have at least 3 hours of sexy music ready to go. Or, even better, have live music. Young and fun musicians are easy to find and damn cheap because they’re usually broke and hungry. Many musicians will play your party for free just because they love music and need to practice. You can find musicians at local colleges or Craig’s List. 

He plays beautiful Neapolitan songs all night long and all I gotta do is feed him.

He plays beautiful Neapolitan songs all night long and all I gotta do is feed him and make sure he has plenty of wine and access to MBOs.

Having live music at your party is an Exceptional move. Make sure you also have an ipod or CDs with beautiful music on hand for when the musicians take meal and/or MBO breaks.

MY musicians want my input on tonight’s entertainment, so I gotta go. Order my book today by clicking HERE to learn more, and don’t forget to send the receipt to DoctorAlex@neversleepalone.com to be entered to win a trip to Italy!

Pre-order my book and email me the receipt and to win an all-expenses-paid  trip HERE

Pre-order my book and email me the receipt and to win an all-expenses-paid trip HERE

 

Threesomes- The DOs and DON’Ts

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If you have been doing what I tell you to do on this blog and in my book, you should now be attracting all sorts of WFBs who wanna have threesomes with you.

WFBs=Willing Foreign Bodies

And, if you pre-order my book today by clicking HERE, I will send you an advance preview that tells you in detail how to transform yourself into The One everyone wants. Just email your receipt to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com and I will email you a confidential and complete preview of one of the most important chapters.

Don't forget to come to the NSA Seminar at Joe's Pub on November 1st to learn more and meet WFBs

Don’t forget to come to the NSA Seminar at Joe’s Pub, NYC on November 1st to learn more and meet plenty of WFBs that wanna give you MBOs

Today, we are gonna talk about the DON’Ts when it comes to threesomes. I suggest everyone read, because much of this applies to twosomes through tensomes.

Threesome DON’Ts

DON’T TRY TO MAKE IT LIKE A PORNO MOVIE

Threesomes are intrinsically pornographic, so you don’t need to push that angle. You should focus on making the threesome as sensual, magical and beautiful as possible. All the crazy amazing filth and kink and dirty talk and fluids-flying-everywhere will come naturally. Think less Rocco Siffredi* and more Bernardo Bertolucci.

*Let it be known, I have utmost respect for Signor Siffredi and his art and I owe many of my most intense MBOs to him. Signor Siffredi never “tries to make the porno.” He focuses on the cinematic beauty of the human body, the humor in all sexual encounters, and the importance of attracting  the right WFBs.

Tell the WFBs HOW you like it. They're always eager to listen.

Tell the WFBs HOW you like it. PEEPs will always listen to someone who knows what they want.

You’ve got to remember, that for many of the WFBs you sleep with, this will be their first threesome. You’ve got to make them feel comfortable, beautiful and SAFE.

ESPECIALLY if you are two men with one woman in an MMF situation. This woman is placing herself in a very vulnerable situation, being with you and your bro, so you need to repeatedly ask her is she feels comfortable. Because many threesomes turn rough and filthy (and that’s okay if everyone’s into it), I HIGHLY suggest coming up with a safe word before the sexual encounter begins, so that no matter how crazy it gets, or how submissive or pornstarish she wants to be, you all know what the definite “STOP NOW!” word is. Make sure you’re both checking in with her several times throughout the encounter to make sure she’s okay.

He always checks with me to make sure I'm okay, before, during and after the MBO. #gentleman #lunchbreak

He always checks with me to make sure I’m okay, before, during and after the MBO. #gentleman #lunchbreak #likefatherlikeson

If you are two women in an FFM situation, make sure you two are actually into each other sexually and not just doing it because you’re both into the guy. Remember to breathe deeply, have a damn good time, and make it as beautiful and cinematic as you want it to be. Men are WONDERFUL at responding to sexual suggestions, so be sure to tell him what you’re both into, ask him what he’s into, and work together so that all your fantasies come true.

Communication is very important.

And if you’re in an FFF or MMM, or QB$ you already know exactly what to do.

Sometimes, a night with the girls is EXACTLY what I need.

Sometimes, a night with just the girls is EXACTLY what I need.

DON’T STAY WHERE YOU’RE NOT WANTED 

Sometimes, in the middle of a threesome, you will feel as though the other parties involved are paying absolutely no attention to you and you will begin to get the sense that they’d rather you not be there. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Sometimes, the chemistry is just off. And sometimes PEEPs will use you as a way to sleep with each other, either because they can’t admit their attraction to each other, or because they’re gay and closeted and/or Catholic, and they need an opposite sex go-between. It’s happened to me. Don’t take it personally.

Yeah, I was pretty sure they were gay, but you never know. I did get one MBO. Then I left the room and made us all pasta.

Yeah, I was pretty sure they were gay, but you never know in Napoli. I did get one MBO out of it. Then I left the room and made us all pasta.

Consider yourself a catalyst for a sexual encounter between two people who desperately needed it, leave the room quietly and gracefully and go work on something creative.

You’ll get yours soon enough.

DON’T BE SCARED TO STOP IT

You know if you’re not comfortable and you know if somebody else is not comfortable in a threesome situation. Don’t be scared to stop at any time, if you or someone else in the situation is uncomfortable. Sexual discordancy is palpable and will prevent everyone involved from enjoying the experience and having an MBO.

Not feelin it with Red tonight.

I just wasn’t feeling it with Salvatore. So, me and P respectfully ditched him–He got 6 free Aperol spritzes and a ride back to Scampia out of it.

Even if the threesome was your idea in the first place, you can still be the one to stop it at any time. Don’t worry that people are going to think you are an asshole. It’s YOUR body and YOUR responsibility to make sure everyone is having a good time. If you are uncomfortable or you sense one of the WFBs is, you can stop it at anytime. You can say that you’re dying of thirst, you can say that you need to pee, you can say you heard a knock at the door, or simply by say that you feel uncomfortable and want to stop, or slow down a bit.

They understand-Sometimes I ain't in a sexual mood and just wanna eat pasta and watch soccer with them.

They understand-Sometimes I ain’t in a sexual mood and I just wanna eat pasta and watch soccer with them.

If your WFBs don’t respect your feelings, leave immediately or kick them the fuck out.

That’s all for now, fuckables. Soon, we will talk about the difference between love and lust, how to plan the perfect NSADP, and how to make the most out of a Green Card marriage.

NSADP= NSA Dinner Party

Getting dressed for my NSADP

Getting dressed for my NSADP

Threesomes — The DOs and DON’Ts

IMG_2763If you are actually DOING what I told you to do in the blog entries below, then attracting WFBs who want to have a threesome with you should be no problem. If you actually DO everything I tell you to do — rather than just thinking about doing it, or only doing half of the things I suggest like a lazyass– you should now be swimming in a sea of sociosexual options.

NSA Truth

If you take action, you will get action.

If you want more detailed instructions on how to be C³ and instantly seduce everyone who looks at you, then pre-order my book at one of the many online retail links available by clicking: HERE. Then send the receipt to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com, and I will email you a confidential and complete preview of the STAR chapter today.

The book is really good. Even I can't put it down.

The book is really good. Even I can’t put it down.

Today, we will talk about the DOs and next time we will talk about the DON’Ts of having a threesome.

Threesome DOs

Most of this entry also applies to twosomes through tensomes, so I do suggest every sexually relevant person read this entry, regardless of whether you are into threesomes or not.

1. DO CONTROL THE ENVIRONMENT

I highly suggest bringing the WFBs back to your place so that you can control the lighting, music, refreshments, health and hygiene of everyone involved. If you take the WFBs back to your house instead of going to some random place, you will feel more comfortable and therefore more likely to give and receive MBOs with ease.

If you’re afraid of bringing a stranger back, ask to see your PEEPs ID, google stalk them, and also call someone on the way to your place in front of your PEEP and say to your friend, “I’m taking (insert PEEPs full name(s)) back to my place tonight. So you’re crashing next door tonight at (insert name of fictional friend)’s place, right?” And tell your PEEP you had a musician friend from Brazil crashing with you, but they’re gonna stay with your friend tonight instead.

My bed in my Napoli villa. Pre-order my book today and send receipt to be entered to win a trip here.

I always control the environment. This is my bedroom in my Napoli villa. Pre-order my book today and send receipt to be entered to win a trip here.

If you do everything I tell you to do in the STAR chapter of my book, people will be instantly seduced by you the second they enter your door. You will see when you complete the NSA Challenge at the end of the STAR chapter how different and beautiful your sociosexual life can be once you begin applying the NSA Principle of STAR.

If you are currently homeless or live with your parents and are unable to bring WFBs back to your place, make sure you always travel with small candles (and condoms) on you, that you always have a great NSA Playlist on your audio device, and that you always offer to buy some sort of sensual refreshment – ie: strawberries, champagne, peyote- on the way back to your PEEPs place.

Sure, he's homeless, but he always brings amazing music, cold prosecco and a neverending supply of MBOs.

Sure, he’s homeless, but he always brings amazing music, cold prosecco and a neverending supply of MBOs.

2. DO MAKE IT ALL ABOUT YOUR PEEP(s)

Generosity is the most important quality in a lover. By focusing on your PEEP or PEEPS pleasure, your pleasure will come naturally. By being a generous and consistent lover who goes with the flow of sexual chemistry and gives freely, you are guaranteed to receive your pleasure when the time is yours. Your generosity from the inception of the sexual encounter will put the wheel of Sexual Karma in motion.

And what goes around, comes around.

Sometimes 10 times in 2 hours.

Sometimes, it's all about Gennaro. But, he always has my back...And my front...and all the areas in between.

Sometimes, it’s all about Gennaro. But, he always has my back…And my front…and all the areas in between.

I often find that when I’m too sore, sensitive or distracted to be the blessed recipient of oral/digital/vaginal/ocular sex and I make the encounter all about pleasuring my partner, I more often than not experience the TAO.

TAO=Totally Accidental Orgasm

Also, sometimes your PEEPs greatest pleasure will come from being the first to give YOU an Mind Blowing Orgasm. If that’s the way your PEEP wants it, then lay back, relax and enjoy it. Over and over and over again, if that’s what feels right at the time. You will have your turn to pleasure them or others soon enough. Remember, if your PEEP isn’t doing it the way you like it, give them a kind compliment about how sexy they are and follow it up with a request that they alter their technique to the way you like it.

ATTENTION! If you are a man and you know you orgasm very quickly, make it your priority to give your partner AT LEAST one MBO before you blow your load.

He may be young, but he always makes sure I have an MBO first. And third. And fifth... #Angel #napolidoesitbetter #SATprep

Sure, he’s young, but he always makes sure I have an MBO first. And third. And fifth. #Angel #napolidoesitbetter #SATprep

3.  DO BE SAFE

First of all, make sure you KNOW everyone involved in the sexual encounter is of legal age.

Second of all, ALWAYS USE PROTECTION! Regardless of what your PEEPs say, you never know where they’ve been or who they’ve been with or what they want from you, independent of the sexual encounter.

Whenever I travel, I always bring a bag of candles, condoms and OraQuicks. #knowingisbeautiful

Whenever I travel, I always bring a bag of candles, condoms and OraQuicks. #knowingisbeautiful #STAR

Use condoms as well as other forms of birth control, and if you are with a person who you know or suspect engages in high-risk sociosexual behavior, make them take an OraQuick instant HIV test as an added precaution. It’s available over the counter, is very easy to use and you will have the results in 20 minutes. But still, until you are ready to handle an STI and/or a baby, make them use protection!

Remember the NSA Principle of CONDOM.

 Consider

Other’s

      Negligence

       Desperation

           Opinions (and)

 Motives

"I don't care HOW good of a musician you are. We ain't doing it without a condom!"

“I don’t care HOW good of a musician you are. We ain’t doing it without a condom!”

That’s all for now, my beautiful fuckable angels. Remember, that the NSA Principle of STAR will take the longest for you to fully actualize, so I highly suggest pre-ordering the book today so you can receive that chapter in advance and be a step above the rest.

 

 

How To Have A Threesome- Lesson 5

Dr Alex Schiller

If you want to have a threesome, a sixsome or even just a twosome, you have to draw people to you by being C³. In order for Willing Foreign Bodies (WFBs) to be attracted to you, you must be Captivating, Curious and Capable.

We discussed how to be Captivating and Curious in the postings below. And, if you want step-by-step instructions on how to transform your existence and make everyone you meet want to become a part of your world, you need only pre-order my book online, email me a copy of your receipt to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com, and I will send you an advance preview the entire STAR chapter, so that you will be well ahead of the game by the time your book arrives.

And now…

How To Be Capable

capable/ˈkeɪpəb(ə)l/
adjective
having the ability, fitness, or quality necessary to do or achieve a specified thing. Able to achieve efficiently whatever one has to do; competent.

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If you want people to want to go to bed with you, you have to make them believe you will know what to do once you get there. You must make them believe that you are a generous, intuitive, compassionate and consistent lover who is Capable of giving them MBOs over and over and over again.

MBO = Mind Blowing Orgasm

If you want them to believe that about you, then you must do the following three things when you are interacting socially.

1. LOVE YOUR LIFE

Never complain about your job, your exes, your finances, your health — Never complain about anything. Think about all the things you love about your life and share only those things. Ask others what they love about their lives. If somebody is complaining, you must steer the conversation to a happy place. The easiest way to get people out of their heads and into your bed is to talk about travel fantasies. Tell them you have either just returned from or are planning a trip to _____(fill in blank with a cinematically sexy and preferably international location) and ask them where they want to travel to next and what they would do if they had all the money and time in the world.

"I think your last album was your finest thus far. Don't you guys think so?"

“I think your last album was your finest thus far. Don’t you guys think so?”

Cultivate positive energy.

NSA Truth

Positive energy is easily converted into sexual energy. 

2. BE AFFECTIONATE WITH EVERYONE

Every human being is longing for physical contact. I’m not talking about sexual contact. I’m talking about the compassionate feeling of living skin on living skin. If you’re having a great conversation with someone, no matter what gender they are or how you feel about them sexually, tell them how much you are enjoying their company and, when appropriate, give their arm or hand an affectionate squeeze or give them a human hug or platonic kiss.

I don't wanna sleep with these awesome ladies, but by showing them human affection...

I don’t wanna sleep with these awesome ladies, but by showing them human affection…

If you sense they are into you sexually and you aren’t into them sexually you can subtly mention your attraction or involvement with someone else. As long as they know where they stand with you sociosexually, they won’t take your affection the wrong way.

Being affectionate with sexually irrelevant people demonstrates to WFBs watching that you are a generous and compassionate human and therefore a generous and compassionate lover.

Look how quickly a WFB comes into my orbit. How he doth hover!

Look how quickly a WFB comes into my orbit. How he doth hover!

3. BE DEDICATED

Everyone wants to sleep with a dedicated and consistent lover who they believe will definitely give them a Mind Blowing Orgasm (MBO). It would be classless and creepy to meet a WFB at a sociosexual watering hole and say, “When I go down on you, I’m gonna worship your genitals with my hands, mouth and body and I’m not gonna stop until you have the most intense orgasm of your life.”

That would be really weird.

But, what you can do, is psychically convey this to them by working on something sensual and difficult at the bar while you’re waiting for WFBs to enter your orbit. You can be trying to untangle a necklace with a pin, you can be trying to translate a foreign language song, you can be trying to crochet something, or learn calligraphy, you can be trying to wrap a friend’s birthday gift in elegant paper and get the ribbon just right.

When WFBs enter your orbit and begin talking to you, give them your attention, but do NOT stop what you’re doing. Say something like, “I AM listening to you. But, when I start something, I always make sure to finish… because I know it’s going to feel amazing afterwards.”

He wants to help me get the difficult dialect just right...

He wants to help me get that difficult dialect just right…

Do those things, and everything else I talk about in my blog and book, and I promise people will want to sleep with you. Don’t forget to pre-order Never Sleep Alone today, email me the receipt and I will send you the STAR chapter. It’s one of the most important ones. 

Tomorrow, I’m going to tell you how to be C³ once you get them into your bed. I’m gonna tell you the DOs and DONT’s of threesomes and I’m gonna give you specific techniques to ensure that you and your PEEPs will have MBOs over and over and over again.

I will not stop until you are satisfied.

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How To Have a Threesome-Lesson 4

If you want people to want to have a threesome or any other kind of sociosexual intercourse with you, you must be C³-

Captivating, Curious and Capable

When you are C³,  you create a powerful Orgiastic Energy that pulls Wiling Foreign Bodies into your orbit. WFBs are the sexy PEEPs who want to sleep with you.

We talked about being Captivating in the post below. And, if you want me to email you detailed instructions on HOW to transform yourself into the most Captivating person anyone has ever met (within one week!), you need only click on one of these links and pre-order my book through BarnesandNoble.com, Amazon.com, Indibound, Books A Million, or the ibook store. Also available for Kindle and Nook.  When you email a copy of the receipt to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com, I will email you an advance preview on the complete STAR chapter of my book so you can be a step ahead of the rest.

I make sure I look Captivating when I go to the soccer games...

I make sure I look Captivating when I go to the soccer games…

And now…

How To Be Curious

Ask questions. Lots of them. And actually listen to the answers people give you.  Remember the NSA Principle of ADT (Ask Don’t Tell) and whenever you have the urge to tell a sexually attractive person something about yourself, ASK them something about themselves instead. If you are trying to have a threesome (or orgy) with multiple people, make sure you are asking each WFB in the group an equal amount of questions. Make it all about them. Make them feel like they are interesting and entertaining.

It turns people on to talk about themselves.

It turns people off when you talk too much about yourself.

NSA Truth

People will always be more turned on by what they imagine about you than by what you tell them about yourself. 

"So... you guys call it, 'calcio'...?

“So… you guys call it, ‘calcio’…?

So, shut up about yourself for once and instead, ask people questions about themselves. And always preface your opening question with a compliment.

Examples:

“You have an amazing sense of style. Where do you like to shop in the city?”

“That’s such a cool bag. Do you travel a lot?”

“I love your glasses. Are you reading anything you love right now?”

Unlock the conversation with a simple compliment and a simple question and then gradually, if you two have Chemistry, you can shift to more erotic topics. When you make the shift into erotic topics preface your first question with a short and intriguing statement about yourself. End the statement with a brief pause, take a sip of your drink and hold eye contact with your PEEP as you continue with the question.

"I met the goalie once, but we were covered in mud at the time. Have you ever been to a turkish bathhouse?"

“I met the goalie once, but we were covered in mud at the time. Have you ever been to a turkish bathhouse?”

Examples:

“I adore the food here…Do you think it’s true what they say about oysters?”

“I found it difficult to find good wine in Thailand. Have you ever had a thai massage?”

“Oh dear, I think I slept with the bartenders cousin after an Oscar Party. Have you ever had a threesome?”

"So... this is where Vincenzo Bellini made love for the first time...?"

“So… this is where Vincenzo Bellini made love for the first time…?”

If you are successfully Captivating and Curious and you two have Chemistry and the conversation is going well, it will be very easy for you to get that PEEP or PEEPs back to your house. All you have to do, is make them believe you are a Capable lover.

And we will talk about how to do that next time.

Right now, I am very curious about something.

A domani.

"So...you just lick it the same way as an American ice cream cone...?"

“So…you just lick it the same way as an American ice cream cone…?”

How To Have A Threesome-Lesson 3

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As I said, if you want a threesome, you can’t force it. Actively seeking a threesome gives you The Look Of Expectation which will make you very unattractive and nobody will want to have a threesome with you. However, you CAN create the powerful magnetic force that pulls Willing Foreign Bodies directly into your orbit and you CAN create the Orgiastic Energy that makes threesomes spontaneously happen.

I’m gonna tell you how to do it right now.

I don't go looking for it. It just happens.

I don’t go looking for it. It just happens.

But, I want you to think long and hard and be sure that this is what you really want. Because if you actually do what I tell you to do, people are going to be all over you.

I was just minding my own business, reading and spinning...

I was just minding my own business, being C3…

The good news is, 98 percent of people just read self-help and never take action. So, if you want to be one of those PEEPs  who just reads advice for shits and giggles with no intention of making a positive change, go ahead.  But let it be known, IF you decide to be one of the few exceptional individuals that actually follows my advice, your life will change dramatically.

NSA TRUTH

If you take action you will get action. 

 In order to attract Willing Foreign bodies into your orbit and make everyone you meet want to sleep with you, you have to be C³– Captivating, Curious and Capable. Today we will focus on:

How To Be Captivating

cap·ti·vat·ing/ˈkaptəˌvātiNG/ adjective

Definition: capable of attracting and holding interest; charming.

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Being Captivating is so damn easy. You only have to do three things. Anybody can do these things, but most people never do. So, if YOU can make yourself do it, you will automatically be the most captivating person in any situation, WFBs will be attracted to you and you will have more threesome opportunities than you know what to do with.

1.  Always Go Out Alone and Always Have A Mission

When you go out for an evening all by yourself, you automatically arouse the curiousity and desire of everyone you meet because by going out alone, you are projecting the energy of a Fearless, Independent, Relaxed and Erotic person. And those are the four most attractive qualities in a human being. Also, going out without your cock-blocking friends makes you open to interactions with other PEEPs and allows you to experiment with different personas and sociosexual roles until you find what works for you.

When you go out alone you make NEW friends. Sometimes famous Neapolitan rapper friends who buy your pasta and give you backstage passes...

When you go out alone you make NEW friends. Sometimes famous Neapolitan rapper friends who buy your pasta and give you backstage passes…

I am so tired, of people writing, “But Dr. Alex. I never meet anyone when I go out!” And I write back, “When was the last time you went out alone?” And they write back, “But, I don’t want to go out alone.” Fine. Stay in wearing your coffee-stained Garfield t-shirt and faded yoga pants, or keep going out with your cockblocking friends, doing the same thing over and over again until your genitals turn to dust. Ain’t no skin off my back. More WFBs and MBOs for me.

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My new hobby aka “Mission”

MBO=Mind-Blowing Orgasm

If you are nervous about going out alone, just make sure you Always Have A Mission. A mission is something you want to accomplish while you are out. This could be reading a book, learning a foreign language or being an amateur DJ. You will find that the more focused you are on your mission, the more WFBs will be drawn to you. I always go out alone. And I never sleep alone.

Unless I want to.

2. Always Dress Like A STAR

Remember the NSA Principle of STAR?

STAR = Style Transcends Actual Reality

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The amazing garment I’m holding was designed by the incomparable Amber Patton. She designs exquisite and unique pieces that will make you instantly captivating.  Know it. Wear it. Get it. AmberPatton.com #MBOoutfits

I go into this in great detail in The Book and if you pre-order it HERE and email the receipt to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com, I will send you an advance preview of the whole STAR chapter today, so you’ll have step-by-step instructions on how to transform yourself, your home and your personality and finally become a seductive and exciting person who everyone wants to sleep with. But, I can tell you right now, if you want to attract people to you, you MUST dress and carry yourself in a a unique way that heightens your presence and sets you apart from everyone else in the room.

You must imagine that your life is a movie and that you are the star of this movie. As the star of this movie, your job is to incite the curiosity and desire of everyone who looks at you.

NSA Truth

Curiosity and desire are the foundations of sexual attraction and romantic obsession. 

Don’t wear boring-ass Ann Taylor Loft outfits or Khakis (or dad jeans) and golf shirts. Life is too short to dress like an awkward and boring person. Dress like a bold, confident, sensual and romantic person. Clothing is about function. Costumes are about fantasy. Make it your goal to be a walking fantasy.

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The power of sunglasses…

And always wear sunglasses during the day. Rain or shine. A nice pair of sunglasses will make you instantly look elegant and mysterious. There is also a very magical thing about sunglasses that I talk about in the book, which I will send you via email if you pre-order it HERE

But let’s move on.

3. Leave Your Cock-Blocking Phone At Home

Unless you can end your dependency on your mobile phone, nobody amazing will ever want to have a threesome or any other kind of sociosexual intercourse with you.

Do you wanna sleep with this guy?

Do you wanna sleep with this guy?

It will be difficult for you to live without your phone at first, but if you want to be beautiful, powerful and fuckable, you MUST start living without being constantly connected to your damn phone.Your smartphone is not only making you anxious and ruining your eyesight and posture, it is also severely diminishing your erotic energy. When you are connected to your mobile device, you create a negative energy that actually repels the Willing Foreign Bodies that you want to enter your orbit and have a threesome with you.

Just start leaving it at home for a couple of hours when you go out a night. Don’t worry that someone might be trying to get a hold of you. People can wait. People want to wait. Making people wait makes people want to sleep with you. The next time you are out, look around you at all of the anxious and mediocre people who are scrolling through their smartphones with The Look of Expectation on their sad and sexually irrelevant faces.

You do not want to be one of those people.

Ditch the phone and  get some sunglasses. Stop thinking  "Comfortable and Casual" and start thinking  "Fearless and Fuckable"

Ditch the phone and get some sunglasses and a nice jacket. Stop thinking “Comfortable and Casual” and start thinking “Fearless and Fuckable”

Be the person who looks amazing and goes out alone. Be the interesting and passionate person who is at the bar reading, or drawing, or dancing — Not the awkward average person who is playing Candy Crush, texting with people who find you sexually irrelevant or updating your Facebook wall.

Look like a star and live like a star and I promise you, those WFBs will come into your orbit and give you MBOs over and over and over again.

And this is how a WFB becomes a STAR. #SFHN

And this is how a WFB becomes a STAR.
#SFHN

Soon we will talk about how to be Curious and Capable, how to get WFBs back to your house and into your bed and what to do (and not do) once you get them there.

But tonight, PLEASE do yourself a favor, dress in an outfit that makes you feel beautiful and powerful, leave your cockblocking friends and your stupid Smartphone behind, and start living the cinematic and magical life you were meant to lead.

Don’t wait until tomorrow.

Tomorrow your genitals could turn to dust.

Ciao for now, my beautiful and fuckable angels.

I gotta run some drills.

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How To Have A Threesome- Lesson 2

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So, how do you find these hot and horny Threesome Seekers who want to do all sorts of beautiful and filthy things with you, as they worship your body, respect your soul, feed you grapes, and give you MBOs over and over and over again until the three of you collapse in a mutually satisfied state of post-orgasmic euphoric bliss?

Calm down, fuckables. You can find them almost anywhere. I will soon tell you the Top 5 Places to find Threesome Seekers. But, remember, it’s very easy to convert a previously prudish person into a willing and active participant in a threesome. The important thing is how to attract Willing Foreign Bodies into your orbit and how to create the Orgiastic Energy that makes threesomes organically happen.

Can you feel the OE coming off these WFBs?

Can you feel the OE? Me and Feda got that WFB on lockdown. #TGIF

 

To attract WFBs into your orbit and create OE you have to project The Three Cs. If you want people to want to have a threesome (or any kind of Sociosexual Intercourse)  with you, you must be:

     Capitvating

Curious

 Capable

Tomorrow, we will go into how to become C³.

But today, you must prepare your environment. Read THIS and get yourself ready for the best sex and loves of your life.

Also, if you pre-order my book at a discounted price HERE or HERE and email me a copy of the receipt to DoctorAlex@NeverSleepAlone.com, I will send you a confidential copy of a special Bonus Chapter that my publishers cut from the book for “legal reasons”.

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Go buy my book and go get your shit together.

YO–

 

I love you.

 

How To Have A Threesome- Lesson 1

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Certified 100% Organic

Thousands of men and women have written me, or approached me after my live show, saying, “Dr. Alex, I really want a threesome! How can I make it happen?!”

You can’t.

Just as you can’t force enlightenment, You can’t “make a threesome happen.”  It must happen organically. You can’t go looking for it. Being a Threesome Seeker will give you The Look Of Expectation.  And, if you have The Look of Expectation on your face, NOBODY will want to have a threesome with you.

Ever.

Both totes Threesome Seekers

Both totes Threesome Seekers

However, you can develop an awareness that will help you instantly detect other Threesome Seekers. You can create a powerful magnetic energy that will pull Threesome Seekers directly into your orbit. And you can be prepared, so that when they come into your orbit and that threesome happens, all three of you have MBOs all over the place.

This week, I’m going to tell you WHERE to find Threesome Seekers, HOW to attract them into your orbit and WHAT to do (and not do) to make the threesome a magical and orgasmic experience for all involved.

I must go now, because these beautiful gentiluomini are preparing a post-MBO lunch for me. Read the posting below and prepare your environment so you can become the STAR of your own threesome. And tomorrow we will go deeper.

The world is a happy place after MBOs

Certified 100% Orgasmic. The World is a happy place after MBOs.