If you want to Never Sleep Alone, you must have an elegant and exciting NSA DP at least every two weeks. You must make PEEPs want to become a part of your world. Your home is the most important part of that world. Whether you live in a grand villa, a tiny apartment, or your brother’s car, you must be turned on and inspired by your own environment. The second someone enters your space, they should feel like they are entering the magical and sensual world of an Exceptional Individual.
NSA DP= NSA Dinner Party
Regardless of your income or the size of your home, you can create a cinematic and seductive environment that arouses the curiosity and desire of everyone who enters your door. If you pre-order my book today at any of the online retailers available by clicking HERE, I will send you an advance chapter that tells you exactly how to do that. Just email the receipt to: DoctorAlex@neversleepalone.com and I will send you back the pages that will change your life for the better.
Curiosity and Desire are the foundations of sexual attraction and romantic obsession.
Because you are the most comfortable and seductive when you are in your own space, the best way to seduce people is by inviting them to a dinner party at your home, so they can see you at your best.
Dinner Parties are a great way to show your best self and seduce PEEPS into wanting to know you better. Most people SUCK at throwing dinner parties. Yours are going to be amazing. Just do what I say, and I promise everyone will want to be a part of your world and give you MBOs over and over and over again.
5 GUIDELINES FOR GIVING THE PERFECT NSA DINNER PARTY
1. Make Sure Your Environment Is Cinematic and Seductive
If people don’t want to be with you, there are reasons.
We must eliminate these reasons from your life.
2. Don’t Invite Your Damn Friends
You spend enough time with those sexually irrlevant cockblockers. If your friends are around, you will very self-concious experimenting with different personas and sociosexual roles. But, IF you have a friend that you sleep with regularly and neither of you are unhealthily obsessed with the other, you may invite him or her. Sexual energy is palpable and desire is contagious. Otherwise, try to invite only NEW people, or people you’ve had one or two dates with and want to get to know better.
Don’t invite your damn co-workers either, unless they are new to your organization and/or you find them sexually attractive. If you want to Never Sleep Alone, you must expand your Sociosexual Network. Go out and meet NEW people and invite them to your dinner party. When inviting people say, “I’m having a dinner party on _____. Getting interesting people together over an amazing meal is one of my favorite things in life. You’re very interesting, so I hope you can join the group.”
Get their email and/or phone number, send them the detailed invite the next day, and tell them you need them to RSVP two days before the DP so you know how much food to prepare.
3. Keep It Between 4-10 PEEPs
Always have between 4 and 10 people total (including yourself) at your dinner parties. Less than 4 is no good, and more than 10 makes it hard to manage. You must be able to relax and have interesting conversations with your guests, so keep it intimate, and keep it simple. Always try to invite an equal number of interesting and sexy males and females (even if you’re gay) and make sure people sit male-female-male-female.
Try not to invite more than one couple (if you must invite a damn couple) and if you do invite a couple, make sure they are sexy and fun and don’t let them sit next to each other. Keep your DP interesting by inviting people of various ages, cultures and socio-economic backgrounds. Oftentimes, I tell the people I’m inviting that they can bring one interesting guest.
4. Plan Well
Make sure you know what food and drink you will be serving. Unless you have a problem with alcohol, I highly suggest providing some wine and/or spirits, and also telling everyone to bring a bottle of their favorite truth serum. If you’re cooking, make sure to test your recipes on yourself and/or an existing lover beforehand. Cooking is not absolutely necessary. If you’re too busy or have no clue what you’re doing in the kitchen, then just order take-out and present it on beautiful dishes or in some other interesting way.
One time I had a champagne and lobster DP.
I covered the table with vintage newspapers, bought some freshly steamed lobsters (also made a cheese plate and a vegetable dish for vegetarians/vegans/pains in the asses) and I told everyone to bring a bottle of bubbly. It was an amazing and inexpensive night, and it took less than an hour to prepare.
5. Have Music, Candles and Dim Lighting
Make sure you have tons of candles, that you turn off gross overhead lights and leave a few dim lamps on and that you have at least 3 hours of sexy music ready to go. Or, even better, have live music. Young and fun musicians are easy to find and damn cheap because they’re usually broke and hungry. Many musicians will play your party for free just because they love music and need to practice. You can find musicians at local colleges or Craig’s List.
Having live music at your party is an Exceptional move. Make sure you also have an ipod or CDs with beautiful music on hand for when the musicians take meal and/or MBO breaks.
MY musicians want my input on tonight’s entertainment, so I gotta go. Order my book today by clicking HERE to learn more, and don’t forget to send the receipt to DoctorAlex@neversleepalone.com to be entered to win a trip to Italy!