Don’t be this woman.
If you’re the girl who can’t get the guy, there are reasons. We must eliminate these reasons. You are capable of becoming The One Everyone Wants. But you’ve got to face facts and make changes.
The Top 5 Ways Women Repel Men
1. You Talk Too Much
He doesn’t want to hear about your sick cat, your asshole boss/ex/child, your suspicious moles, your credit card debt or your latest trip to the outlet mall. Men LOVE mystery. So, sit back, shut up, and make HIM do the talking for once. Don’t complain, don’t be shouty or shrill, speak slowly in low tones, and whenever you have the urge to tell him something about yourself, ask him something about himself instead. And, for God’s sake, SSL–STOP SAYING “LIKE”! When you misuse the word “like” 7 times a minute, you sound like an unfuckable idiot. Watch this video, and try to emulate Marlene Deitrich when you speak. I PROMISE that if you learn to lower your pitch and speak slowly and intelligently, you will be exponentially more attractive.
2. You Don’t Dress Seductively
Don’t dress like an asexual soccer mom, a desperate ho-bag, or a boring member of the mediocre majority of single women. Stop wasting time and money getting your hair blown-out like everyone else. Stop tottering about in 6 inch heels you don’t know how to walk in and wearing tight dresses you’re always adjusting awkwardly. Develop a style that’s all your own, maintain good posture, and wear clothes that arouse the curiosity and desire of everyone who looks at you. Think red dresses, flowing gowns and finely tailored suits that enhance your figure without revealing too much. Start exercising and eating food that makes you feel sexy TODAY. Throw out every piece of clothing that makes you feel gross TODAY. Treat yourself to one garment that stirs the curiosity and desire of everyone who looks at you and start wearing it TODAY. Tomorrow your genitals could turn to dust.
Be THIS woman. (Same woman. New style)
3. You’re Always On Your Phone Or Out With Your Friends
You’re never going to attract quality men if you’re constantly looking at your phone and hopping around from bar to bar with a pack of desperate cock blockers. Instead, dress like a star, leave your phone at home, pick ONE bar or restaurant with a lively scene, and make a commitment to stay there, enjoying a leisurely meal ALONE while you read an interesting book, write in your journal, sketch out some ideas for redecorating your apartment or work on another creative project. Make it your goal to speak to three strangers every time you go out. When you’re out alone and without your phone, men see you as attractive, adventurous and alluring. When you’re out with “the girls”, men see you as annoying and unfuckable. Stop going out without your friends and your phone, and you’ll start going home with the men you want.
Cultivate your own interests…
4. You Don’t Enjoy Sex
You think of sex as a weapon, a chore or a punishment. You must learn to think of sex as a beautiful way to experience pleasure, explore yourself and connect with another human being. You must learn to be a generous lover, and demand the same generosity in return. Don’t have sex if you don’t want to, and don’t deny yourself sex because you think he won’t respect you if you “sleep with him too soon”. Men respect women who know what they want in and out of bed and who communicate their desires clearly and confidently. If you want it sweeter and slower–TELL HIM. If you want it harder and dirtier–TELL HIM. If you want him to play with your clitoris, lick your nipples, whisper in your ear, pull your hair, kiss you softer, fuck you deeper, go down on you longer–TELL HIM. And if you tell him what you want and he’s not willing to give it to you–LEAVE him.
Create a life you love…
5. Finding A Man Is Your Greatest Passion In Life
He can smell that. You’ve got to stop it. Everyone wants love and sex and romance. And most people want marriage, a home and a family, but you’ve got to have other passions in your life that are just as important as securing a spouse and making babies. What would you do if men didn’t exist and you were incapable of procreating? What are you passionate about? What interests do you want to explore? What independent adventures do you want to have? Develop diverse interests, educate yourself on subjects you find fascinating, experiment with food, music, art and sex, explore the world, explore yourself, and dedicate time every day to creating something that’s important to you. If you create a life you truly love, everyone you meet will want to become a part of it.
And everyone will love YOU.
You are beautiful and magical and you deserve an amazing life full of love and sex and MBOs. Make these positive changes in your life and you will NEVER SLEEP ALONE.
Unless you want to.
Let me know if I can help.