Fuckability has very little to do with your looks, age, or income level. It has everything to do with your habits. If you actually DO the things I tell you to do, everyone will want to do YOU. You don’t have to sleep with everyone. But everyone is going to want to sleep with you. And when everyone wants to sleep with you, you have the power to get whatever you want.
Read my other blog postings and buy my book HERE to learn more about The 9 Habits of Highly Fuckable People. But, today, I give you:
See the world. Find yourself.
Habit #4: You Must Travel Internationally
And you must travel alone. Solo international travel is essential to being an exceptional individual whom everyone wants to sleep with. You must strive to go on at least two international trips a year, and you must leave your hometown and visit one new place in your own country at least once a month. Travel is cheaper and easier than you think. Click HERE to learn how to obtain everything you need to make your NSA Travel dreams come true. I provide all the links and all the information. Get it done!
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I’d love to get you. On a slow boat to Procida…
I want you to close your eyes and visualize a romantic and exotic foreign country that you have always wanted to visit. In what faraway land do you see yourself looking beautiful and powerful, feeling euphorically happy and truly alive, experiencing new sights, smells, sounds, tastes and textures, while eating the most delicious meals of your life, partying with the locals late into the night, taking up temporary residence in an architectural masterpiece and making passionate love to a magnificent stranger as the dawn breaks over the horizon?
The view from my (outdoor) bed in Napoli.
Then I want you to get dressed in an outfit that makes you feel wonderful when you look in the mirror. Then, I want you to go to a bookstore alone and buy a travel guide for that magical place you have never been.
Take your new travel book, a pen and a notebook to a lively SocioSexual Watering Hole that serves delicious food. Do not invite any of your friends to meet you. Take a seat at the bar, turn off your phone and enjoy a long and leisurely meal alone while you read your travel book and begin planning your dream trip.
Partying with the locals
You will be going on this trip by yourself within the next six months. Don’t worry if you don’t have the money yet or if you think it will be difficult to take time off. Stop making excuses and start making an itinerary. You will find that once you begin clearly articulating your desires and creating a step-by-step plan, everything and everyone around you will conspire to make your fantasy a reality.
If anyone at the SocioSexual Watering Hole asks you what you are doing, say: “I’m planning a trip to ________________.” If they ask you why you are going to this amazing location all by yourself, smile and say: “Because I want to.”
Because I want to.